This week’s Hotmess Hottie is Holly!! She is amazing and one of the most genuinely kind people you will every meet!!

I started hotmess as an observer.  My sister, Emily, heard about hotmess and was determined to join!  I watched as she spent hours in line so she would make it in.  For months she would tell me how amazing hotmess was and told me to join.  I wasn’t so sure.  She told me I would have to yell things like “I am amazing” and “I am beautiful”.  In some ways I thought that would be weird and uncomfortable.  As she went to hotmess I watched her change.  She was happier, more confident, and a better mom.  After her first session she encouraged me to sign up.  I didn’t.  I watched again.  I struggled committing. I was training for the marathon and used it as an excuse not to join.  After she finished her second session I attended the banquet with her.  Tia came up to me that night and did her dance moves and I wasn’t sure how to react, but I knew there was something special about her!  I signed up the next day.

Through my experience of hotmess I have learned how important it is to tell ourselves things such as “I am amazing” and “I am beautiful”.  We need to hear it!  We need to believe it.  Too often we are telling ourselves we aren’t enough and that we can’t make it.  What we tell ourselves is what we become. I noticed how much better I feel on the days I go to hotmess compared to the days I don’t go.  I am a better mom, a better teacher, and a better person. There is a feeling at hotmess that can’t be explained.  It can only be experienced.  I am grateful for the experience I have been given and the opportunity to go to hotmess!

Thanks for being a part of Hotmess!! We love you Holly!